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Wednesday, July 25, 2012

How to handle the break-up of a marriage


The end of a dream

The romance of the relationship began with excitement and hope for the future. With the failure of that dream, disappointment, stress and grief evolves. The loss of the life you lived together disrupts your home, routine and relationships with friends and extended family. Your grief creates doubt about your future and even your self-identity of becoming a single person again. This pain must be endured because it represents the loss of the relationship, shared dreams and commitments you created together.
Society refers to divorce as a “failed marriage.” Your marriage isn’t a failure if you are able to retain what was learned from the relationship. In the course of life, things happen to people that cause them to change. Sometimes, those events cause relationships to end. That doesn’t mean the relationship failed when it was no longer viable. The marriage was successful for the years you were happy together.

A new beginning

Many couples facing divorce concentrate on who is to blame, but it doesn’t matter whose fault it is. You still are facing the reality that the relationship is over and the question of how to move forward. Obsessing about the loss and filling your life with anger only hinders your progress in healing. Focus on yourself. Your new life is a work in progress.
It is important to heal from your divorce before beginning a new relationship. A rule of thumb is that you should allow approximately six months for every five years you were together. If you begin to date before you are ready, you can bring your past mistakes into the new relationship or experience the pain of a “rebound relationship."
Try to live independently first and learn who you are as a single person again. Then explore new ways to seek fulfillment by making time in your life for the fun things you enjoy doing. This helps you relish the freedom you now have over your own schedule. Always focus on the positive and what is going right in your life. To optimize this positive thinking, prioritise your self-care by eating right, exercising and getting enough sleep. Make this a part of your daily lifestyle. The best option you have for your new beginning is to live well and enjoy the journey.

How to Surf the Web Anonymously with Proxies


One of the easiest ways to hide your computer, and thus hide yourself, online is to use proxies. Proxies act as a computer between you and the rest of the Web. You can, for instance, connect to the Web through a proxy in Japan even though you're in the United States. Here's how to do it in a variety of browsers.

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Setting Up a Proxy in Mozilla Firefox

  1. 1
    Open Mozilla Firefox.
  2. 2
    Click the Firefox option on the upper-left corner.
     Click the Firefox option on the upper-left corner.
    Click the Firefox option on the upper-left corner.
  3. 3
    Click on the Options menu, and choose Options.
     Click on the Options menu, and choose Options.
    Click on the Options menu, and choose Options.
  4. 4
    Access Connection Settings.
     Access Connection Settings.
    Access Connection Settings. Click the Advanced tab, then the Network tab, then Settings.
  5. 5
    Chose the manual proxy configuration option.
     Chose the manual proxy configuration option.
    Chose the manual proxy configuration option. In the HTTP proxy field, enter your proxy server IP address. In the port field, enter your port number.
  6. 6
    Click OK to finish.
     Click OK to finish.
    Click OK to finish.

Setting Up a Proxy in Microsoft Internet Explorer

  1. 1
    Open Internet Explorer.
  2. 2
    Click on the Tools menu in the upper-right corner, and select Internet Options.
     Click on the Tools menu in the upper-right corner, and select Internet Options.
    Click on the Tools menu in the upper-right corner, and select Internet Options.
  3. 3
    Click the Connections tab.
     Click the Connections tab.
    Click the Connections tab.
  4. 4
    Click the LAN Settings button in the lower portion of the window.
     Click the LAN Settings button in the lower portion of the window.
    Click the LAN Settings button in the lower portion of the window.
  5. 5
    Check "Use a proxy server for your LAN," then enter your proxy IP address and port number.
     Check "Use a proxy server for your LAN," then enter your proxy IP address and port number.
    Check "Use a proxy server for your LAN," then enter your proxy IP address and port number.
  6. 6
    Click OK.
     Click OK.
    Click OK.

Setting Up a Proxy in Google Chrome

  1. 1
    Open Google Chrome.
  2. 2
    Click on the wrench in the upper-right corner.
     Click on the wrench in the upper-right corner.
    Click on the wrench in the upper-right corner.
  3. 3
    Select Settings.
     Select Settings.
    Select Settings.
  4. 4
    Click "Show advanced settings.
     Click "Show advanced settings.
    Click "Show advanced settings..." at the bottom of the screen.
  5. 5
    Click the  "Change proxy settings.
     Click the "Change proxy settings.
    Click the "Change proxy settings..." button.
  6. 6
    Click LAN Settings near the bottom of the window.
     Click LAN Settings near the bottom of the window.
    Click LAN Settings near the bottom of the window.
  7. 7
    Check "Use a proxy server for your LAN," and enter your proxy IP address and port number.
     Check "Use a proxy server for your LAN," and enter your proxy IP address and port number.
    Check "Use a proxy server for your LAN," and enter your proxy IP address and port number.
  8. 8
    Click OK.
     Click OK.
    Click OK.
  9. 9
    Click OK again in the Internet Options window.
     Click OK again in the Internet Options window.
    Click OK again in the Internet Options window.

Setting Up a Proxy in Safari in Windows

  1. 1
    Open Safari.
  2. 2
    Open the Settings menu.
     Open the Settings menu.
    Open the Settings menu. You can find this either by clicking Safari -> Preferences, or clicking the gear in the upper-right corner of the browser and selecting Preferences.
  3. 3
    Click the Advanced tab.
     Click the Advanced tab.
    Click the Advanced tab.
  4. 4
    Click the Change Settings button.
     Click the Change Settings button.
    Click the Change Settings button.
  5. 5
    Click the LAN Settings button.
     Click the LAN Settings button.
    Click the LAN Settings button. You should be in the Connections tab.
  6. 6
    Check "Use a proxy server for your LAN," and enter your proxy IP address and port number.
     Check "Use a proxy server for your LAN," and enter your proxy IP address and port number.
    Check "Use a proxy server for your LAN," and enter your proxy IP address and port number.
  7. 7
    Click OK.
     Click OK.
    Click OK.
  8. 8
    Click OK again in the Internet Options window.
     Click OK again in the Internet Options window.
    Click OK again in the Internet Options window.

Setting Up a Proxy in Safari on Mac

  1. 1
    Open Safari.
  2. 2
    Open the Settings menu. You can find this either by clicking Safari -> Preferences, or clicking the gear in the upper-right corner of the browser and selecting Preferences.
  3. 3
    Click the Advanced tab.
  4. 4
    Click the Change Settings button.
  5. 5
    Check Automatic Proxy Configuration.
  6. 6
    Enter the URL of the proxy configuration file in the text box at right.
  7. 7
    Uncheck Use Passive FTP Mode.
  8. 8
    Click OK.

Using Web-Based Proxies

The following websites provide proxy services. You don’t need to use proxy settings in your browser if you want to visit any site. Open one of the below links and enter the URL you want to visit anonymously.
  • AceVPN.com offers complete Internet privacy. They offer both free and paid SSL VPN service. The service is based on openvpn and can run on Windows, Linux, Mac and select routers. They are highly recommended by few popular tech websites and blogs. http://www.acevpn.com/.
  • Anonymouse.org exists since 1997 and is one of the oldest privacy-services around. It offers anonymous surfing, emailing and posting for free under http://Anonymouse.org/.
  • Proxy Checker allows to check Proxies online and determine their location and ISP. The site also lists in realtime working Proxies. Check Proxies here Proxy Checker.
  • UnlockMyspace.com is a free web-based proxy that is becoming increasingly popular. It enables you to surf anonymously a web site by entering its address inhttp://unblockmyspace.com/.
  • Tor For a superior means of anonymous browsing without the hassle of unreliable proxies and constant, work-intensive list look-ups, use Tor, an anonymous system sponsored by the Electronic Freedom Foundation.
  • Netonomous.net is a PHP based, free web proxy service which allows you to surf through their server without revealing your IP address. http://netonomous.net/ also provides various option to customize surfing.
  • Anonymouschannel AnonymousChannelmission statement is protection of privacy of our customers by securing their internet connection and anonymizing their IP address.
  • Surf in peace Free list of unblockers / proxies - surf in peace
  • GoTrusted allows users to surf the web anonymously without the use of a proxy and is the only service that encrypts your data with unpenetrable 128-bit SSL. Download GoTrusted.
  • VPN for anonymous surfing Anonymous Surfing with VPN / VPN service
  • BeHidden.com User is lunching own proxy instance for his/her surfing internet needs. High reliability and speed. Good Support. - beHidden - Anonymous Web Surfing Proxy
  • Super VPN Services offer paid and free vpn services which provide you anonymous web surfing solution for personal and business use. Super VPN Services.
  • GoVPNGo.com offers free VPN accounts as well as paid service. With web panels to configure IP types and server locations freely. Anonymous browsing; Instant setup; Surpass web barries and restrictions on local area; Support VOIP and P2P. - GoVPNGo - VPN, Secure Private Unblocking Internet Conection Service
  • VPNSurfing.com free VPN accounts and articles. - Free VPN Info at VPNSurfing.com

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EditTips

  • An IP address is not like a real address: knowing it won't help any robber (real life) /hacker (on the internet) to steal something from you.
  • When you use a proxy, you deliberately choose to trust the proxy owner: (s)he can log, store and save anything that is passing through.
  • A proxy is generally useful to access a website from another country or to encrypt things you don't want your local administrator to see (if used at work, school, etc.). In this case, the proxy should allow you to encrypt the data from and to you computer. However, by doing so, you might break a number of laws and/or school/workplace rules.

EditWarnings

  • The US Computer Fraud & Abuse Act and the EU Cybercrime convention (2001) both clearly define it as a crime to use an open proxy. Such proxies are as good as always hacker or misconfigured computers but using a not protected proxy does not make that legal.
  • Proxies are controlled by some random unknown people: if you use a proxy, keep in mind that the proxy owner can log everything you are doing, hijack website sessions, catch credit card numbers, etc.
  • Keep in mind that IP addresses are only addresses: they are utterly useless to any site owner and hackers. On the other hand, open proxies are very useful to them: they can capture any session cookie and credentials that are going through them.